18th birthday Debut, explained

What is a debut?

According to Wikipedia, “The Debut is a traditional Filipinocoming-of-age celebration which celebrates a young woman’s 18th birthday, the age of maturity in the Philippines.

Although also reaching maturity at 18, a Filipino man may mark his own debut on his 21st birthday, albeit with less formal celebrations or none at all.”

Similar to a sweet 16 or quinceanera, agirl who will turn 18 would throw this big party wherein she may or may not have an entourage of pairs of odd numbers usually 18,9,7 or even 5. There would be traditional practices like the 18s. And a special performance by the debutant.

18s

The most traditional of the 18s are the 18 roses, candles and 18 treasures.

18 roses(18 flowers)- the debutant has 18 significant males who would dance with her, each giving her a rose or special flower. The first is usually the father or father figure followingGother family members, relatives, friend and the 17 or 18th rose is usually forthe debutant’s significant other or closest brother if not closest friend.

18 candles- 18 significant females in the debutante life who serve as her guiding light throughout her life.

“Each delivers a short speech about her relationship with the celebrant, and any special greeting, and lights a candle that is either held or placed on a stand.

Lastly, there are the (optional) 18 white roses. If a debutante is missing a figure in her life such as a father, she chooses her 18 white roses in place of that figure.”

18 treasure(18 tokens)- 18 people of mixed genders would be giving the debutant a special gift and then they would give this speech and tell the significance of their gift to the debutant.

Other 18s

18 Blue Bills/18 k- older members would pin blue bills or thousand peso bills on the debutante gown as the debutant dances with her escort.

18 books- for the bookworm debutant.

18 shoes/any other article of clothing- depending on the theme or of the debutante choosing people gift her clothes or anything else

Throught the years a lot of other 18s emerged. The debutant can make up her own unique 18s to make.her debut that more meaningful.

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Originally debuts are formal parties but in this age of time, debuts can be semiformal or casual depending on the different preference of the debutant.

“A typical ceremony begins with a short prayer invoking blessings upon the debutante. She then enters, and performs traditional dances with her court for their guests. The most important one is known as the “GrandCotillion Dance”, usually a waltz.

Music and other performances are usually interspersed between the “18 items” rites, while dinner and sometimes alcohol are served. A birthday cake ceremony often occurs, and a fireworks display may conclude more extravagant parties. The night ends with the debutante’s speech, in which she shares her thoughts on life and extends her gratitude towards her guests.”

Sources: wikipedia

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Busy.

One way to describe the past month is through the single word busy.

School has been full of up and downs and I’ve been busy with preparations for my 18th birthday. Its kind of a big deal here in this country.

My exams start next week well, with one exam early which is on Tuesday, and the subject I don’t really like is the one I have to taken on my birthday. Happy Birthday to me XP

Anyway, just to update you Phantom readers. October my lovely birthmonth is a few days ahead and I have mixed feelings on turning legal. Which reminds me I can vote it the upcoming election. Cool.

Ill be sending out invites to my party and I’m excited to see my dresses which is currently being made. Other than the exams I think this month will be awesome. Just wish I was young enough to get some free candy on Halloween. Lol. Oh btw. If you know the movie series Halloweentown, Marnie’s actress from the first 3 movies is coming back to celebrate Halloween in the place where they first shot the scenes of Halloween town. I love the movies.

Random sharing time.

Hello Phantom readers.

If I haven’t mentioned before, I am from the Philippines.

Since its the first of September…It’s the start of the celebration for Christmas.

You read that right it’s a thing of this country to start preparing for Christmas as early as September.

Some households may start putting up their trees and Christmas songs are starting to be played on the radio.

Its awesome because by the time December comes, we are all very well in the spirit of the holiday.

After Christmas,we still have a holiday hangover that can last well into February or even march.

Yup we celebrate from September to march:)

Its a great thing to look forward to especially when students are having exams and final grading systems. The thrill of seeing lights outside at night and the decorations on the tree help the time fly by faster.

The only thing that’s missing would be snow…that would be fun (que people who would disagree). For people who have never even seen snow…well…